at my paternal grandma's hse.....it was a small house but enuff to hold all of us...at least i get to catch up more wif my cousins...tho it's onli my biao ge n biao di (of the same age as me).....dey din change much tho it's been some time since we seen each other....except that my biao ge has gotten a gf!! haa....he even showed me their foto without me asking fer it...haa....she's a taiwanese ger...2 yrs older den he is....dey werk in the same company....n if i'm not wrong....it's his ferst gf....after 26 years....last time i used to hound on him to look fer a gf...i even tried to intro my frens to him...but tinking dat he's the kinda egoistic MCP, hoo stays awae frm r/s....he focussed onli on studies n werk...i wld haf tot dat he wld get someone whom wld be younger den him....taiwanese i'm not too surprised la....since sporean gers arent dat compliant...hahaha....oops....he's not bad looking...(cos my cousin mah...haa) but a lil short....his gf mite be a bit or as tall as he is....i tink...haa...gf even bot him a hp....when all of us were discussing bout his gf...dunno my mum or dad asked if she has PR or wad....den my aunt, his mum suddenly blurted out "eh...den can marry her one or not??" hahahaha......damn farnie.....so blunt...the worries of a mum....his bro has a long time gf...tink super steady le...can get married liao...hahaa....
den my uncle started to use poker cards to tell the fortune fer all of us....hmm...wanted to noe more abt myself so i tried.....pretty accurate i tink....fer me at least.....he said...i'm a procrastinator....needs pple to push me den i'll werk fer it....i wun go fer ace...but more den average will do...den....my mum has to add in "dat's y i kip pushing her to look fer bf!"......duhz.....so paiseh....den my uncle spoke up fer me....she noes wad she wans....she wun tell her family members one....haa.....hmm...
den later in the afternoon went over to my maternal grandma's hse....it's actualli my uncle's...terrace house....so mani of us there but everyone is still quite separated....at least i feel....hardly get to even tok to my cousins....one stuck wif bf....the rest engaging in mahjong or poker which i dun like....so i just flop myself in front of the sofa in front of the tv....but like hundreds of pple walk past n plus all the noise from my lil cousin....he abit ADHD....so super active....cannot stop bullying others....i simply cant catch the show.....even trying to read the subtitles oso becum a chore....haiz...boredom!!! cant wait to go back home....the atm there has alwiz been a lil uncomfortable...cos of past grudges....n oso to avoid all the nasty Singaporean favourite pastime...crude comparisons....cannot stand tis kinda mercenary stuff....
CNY is supposed to be a get-together fer everyone in the hope of getting in touch wif others...but it seems hard to break the barrier betw mi n my maternal cousins....tho i used to hang arnd more often wif them when i was young...mabbe all of us has grown up....different backgrounds....different status....different thinking....but from wad i can see....some still bring wif them the character dey had when dey were young....my biao ge still as crappy....my biao di still as quiet...tok onli when necessary....my biao jie still as kiasee....my oldest biao mei still as pretty n likes dolling herself up...my 2nd biao mei still as clever n pretty...(she's the prettiest i tink...n smartest!) my god bro still as nonchalant...but getting more yandao...my 3 other young cousins getting taller n taller.....haiz.....n me? i dunno.
